Monday, December 31, 2012

2012 - Review



On balance, Twenty-Twelve was a good year. Looking back it was a year of rest and some preparation.


One year ago my situation was that of a middle-aged, unemployed, Community College graduate with no prospects on the horizon. Every resume sent out was met with silence. Every call to employment agencies met with the same refrain: We can't place anyone without legal experience. Unemployment weeks could be measured in almost single digits.


Then January turned into February, and the unseasonably warm winter brought with it two contract opportunities in the procurement field. One was with an automotive company and the other with a local school district. After several interviews, I was offered a long term contract with the school district and have been there since. Where this is on my career journey, who can tell, but it's a chance to do something meaningful for the kids so I enjoy it.


For the rest of the year this allowed me to pay bills, buy thing, and save money. It's amazing what a mental relief that is after years of struggle and worry, and it made the whole year good even in the absence of other activities and adventures.

As with every year, I attended some social events. While normally a mixed bag for this Wallflower, they were fun and a good reason to leave the house and even resulted in my making a new potential friend.
 
But for every joy there is a matching sorrow. My oldest and best friend achieved ultimate independence on July 3: He passed away. For the first time since the early 1990's, that I remember, I broke down and cried. The number and variety of people who attended his memorial service were a testament that he was a caring, non-judgmental person. My life was better for having him in it.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Wednesday's Child: Lulu Worden

Lulu's is a sad story for a number of reasons. Being born in 1881 and died in 1888 she would be difficult to find if we didn't know where to look for her. She appears on no census and she is buried in a country cemetery in Hillsdale county, MI [Berg Cemetery].

Every memorial day the extended family would gather to tend the graves to remember and share the family lore. According to that family lore she six year old Lulu nursed the family through some epidemic (smallpox?) only to succumb herself when they had recovered.

Through a MI Genealogical Website, I located a death record (Lula...) that specified measles as the cause of death. Even though it makes for good graveside reminiscences, there's no way to verify the tale at this time.

Lulu Worden. Daughter of Clarissa Teachout & Louis Worden. b. 1881 - d 20 Mar 1888.